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i got this dell magazine in my mail the other day and in the back it had a 15 % laptops from dell,Does that mean i can use it when im ordering my dell laptop from sam's club. another question is can you use coupon codes online when ordering a laptop from sam's club?
23 Jul 2010, 5:01 pm | click here to view more
30 Jul 2010, 12:15 am | click here to view more
1. would you recommended wordpress or joomla as the CMS..i just this two well..so i dont expect other cms..
2. what are the best magazine-style theme for that cms.. i want the free one..
Thanx..
27 Jul 2010, 7:27 am | click here to view more
I am learning italian and I would like to check out some stuff that is written in Italian. Any suggestions where I could find something online? Thank you to every who help!!!
23 Jul 2010, 3:41 pm | click here to view more
Like that of those you would find in a hair dresser/salon collection, with hair cuts and styles? Preferably one I could access online?
thanks! :]
26 Jul 2010, 6:33 pm | click here to view more
I have not gotten the last 2 issues of my magazine subscription, i went online to manage my account and it turns out that they have mailed the issues i have just not been getting them, so i think there's a problem with the mailman delivering mail in this area because there has been times when ive gotten wrong mail to my address, is there anything i could do about this? or how does it work does the same person deliver mail to a specific area every day? I sent an email to the magazine company to send me replacement issues and its not a problem, but im afraid that they wont receive delivered again, Any suggestions?
24 Jul 2010, 11:28 am | click here to view more
I am a photographer and sometimes I stray from portraits and weddings to do a bit of abstract, darker work. I have been visiting alot of photography blogs and alot of them have either been featured on other popular blogs, the online news or in magazines that I read myself. Like Inked, Gothic Beauty, YWD, and so on.
Does anyone have information as to how one would go about having some of their work featured in a magazine as a cover or as just a fragment of a larger article. If you've done this personally what steps did you take? Please be as detailed as possible.
Thankyou!
28 Jul 2010, 1:28 pm | click here to view more
I was just curious. And I have a problem with magazines. I can't afford to buy them every week.
25 Jul 2010, 10:57 am | click here to view more
i plan to do a speech about origami, but I am having a difficult time finding any history that is from a credible source, Ive found some online but im not sure they're reliable or acceptable to cite in my bibliography. we must have 4 different TYPES of sources. meaning 1 book, 1 magazine, 1 video, etc. so if you have something other than a book source that'd be good too. not just the history, that's just whats being hardest to find, any other sources talking about anything other than instructions on origami that'd also be helpful.
26 Jul 2010, 5:51 pm | click here to view more
If I was to stick images I have clip out of magazines or newspaper on my canvas' (etc) and then go on to sell this either online / in shops, is this allowed? Is it copyright?
Thanks
glangran, so i cannot use cutouts from magazines?
28 Jul 2010, 2:51 pm | click here to view more
I live in the United States and I am wondering where I can buy the UK magazine Attitude. I know you can order it online, but I want to know if there are any stores I can receive it at. I figured that barnes and noble or borders might have it, but I just wanted to be sure.
29 Jul 2010, 4:05 pm | click here to view more
Hi, every. the very first time i visited this forum i was absolutely shocked by 7rin's answer. i'd never once before heard anyone being critical of adoption as a general practice. but i wondered why someone would feel this way. i also saw others who seemed to share 7rin's views. i kept coming back and really looking at what these critics had to say. now, i think about this in a whole new light. i've begun to question everything i ever thought about adoption. and i'm trying to more fully understand everything about it, as i'd like to become a social worker one day, probably the policy making sort, when i can afford to go for my post-grad degree. i'm even thinking of writing my thesis on the subject.
so i'm currently trying to educate myself on the subject. i was wondering if anyone knew of websites or online journals with accurate, relevant, and recent stats on adoption, such as numbers and percentages of surrender by race of the mom and adopters, numbers of interracial kids surrendered, percentages of surrendering mothers by socioeconomic status, marriage status, and so on. also, are there any good articles in magazines or online journals with the members of the so called triad? i'm currently waiting on my library to receive "The Primal Wound" in. i'm also going to look for adoption books at thrift stores. i'd like to receive the whole picture, so i've been visiting every sorts of websites, including forums for adopters and adopted persons, natural mothers, and so on.
thanks for the help and for opening my eyes to the fact that there are way more sides to this issue than i'd ever realized.
thank you, 7rin. i wish this were a regular forum for discussions and not just questions. i'd really like to talk with you and other back and forth about the topic.
i've been looking for articles every week. i wanted to assign "The Primal Wound" to my book club, but it is not widely available. i've assigned "Handle with Care" by Jodi Picoult in stead. it does have an adoption backstory. and i'm going to read "Primal Wound" before our meeting and spread some info around.
btw, have you watched "Teen Mom"? you should visit the forums for the show and share.
i've just been looking at the adoptive mom forum on adoption.com. most seem like really nice people. but the jealousy some express toward nmoms is kinda shocking. similarly, the regret expressed by some nmoms is shocking.
thanks, everyone. i'm going to take a look at every these sites and books as i receive time.
25 Jul 2010, 11:58 pm | click here to view more
I don't know if you know but manga has been licensed or something like that, so now people can't read scanlation. Does anyone know a site where we can still read manga or does anyone know magazine I can subscribe to that gives me weekly manga chapters?
29 Jul 2010, 3:01 pm | click here to view more
I found a backpack that i absolutely LOVED in a teen vogue magazine a while ago. I have been searching for EVER trying in to find it online to buy. It says it is a Topshop backpack worth $160 in the magazine, but is not on topshop's website. It really important to me to find it. Here is teen vogue's site with a pic of the bag. If you could help me find it, I would REALLY appriciate it. thx.
http://www.teenvogue.com/style/2010/02/top-ten-spring-fashion-trends#slide=10
28 Jul 2010, 2:51 pm | click here to view more
They're playing their acclaimed 1997 album Ladies and Gentlemen We Are Floating in Space in full at Radio City Music Hall. It's supposed to be the final L+G gig.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j9G7n8DBpO8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UM9WmA9DHPo
Wish I could be there. =(
I hear it's being streamed online by Spin Magazine, but I'm not sure of the details yet.
Bonus Q: Favorite Spiritualized tune? (Mine is "Broken Heart.")
26 Jul 2010, 11:13 pm | click here to view more
i accidentally submitted a subscription order while entering a sweepstakes for seventeen magazine. i cancel when it said thanks for the Subscribe. i was like WHAT!!!??? why. so i canceled that day i even told them i don't what your magazines so i'm not not going to pay. they never anwered me i wait 4 weeks they send me the first magazine today witch i did not want.
here what my Account say
Account Status:
Cancelled
Expire Issue:
September 2011
Current Order Date: Jul 6, 2010
Subscription Term: 12 issues
Start Issue: August 2010
Last Issue Mailed: August 2010
Outstanding Subscription Balance:
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$0.00
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am i going to pay? help plz thanks
29 Jul 2010, 7:10 am | click here to view more
Whilst your celebration on his lovely SPF, what do you typically use as "material"?
IDEAS:
Magazines
Videos
Online sites
Pics of your spouse
A detailed fantasy story in your mind, much like a movie you created in your head.
Random images dancing in your head
Visions of Your partner
Visions of other people you personally know
Visions of people you do not know(celebs,porn stars,etc)
Absolutely nothing...Just a blank mind and physical action
#2 Do you receive that foot curling, intense tingling, highly stiff in the legs feeling during sp only or both sp and the real deal?
Maybe SPF is a day time thing on M&D perhaps?
LILF...forward that pic??
AHhhh, almost 6pm here, 8Ball
23 Jul 2010, 5:48 pm | click here to view more
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If so, you should submit to be a "Recognizing Me" girl. Recognizing Me girls are a part of the new online magazine at www.recognizingme.webs.com and they have TALENT, AMBITION, and are GOOD PEOPLE. They need to be able to give girls advice and must be between the ages of 9-16. If you fit into these categories, please go to www.recognizingme.webs.com and click on "Be a Recognizing Me Girl" to find out how to do it. You don't have to pay nor will you receive paid, it's just a cute, fun thing to do.
26 Jul 2010, 5:12 pm | click here to view more
Saw a picture a while back in a magazine but can't find anything online about it. It was said that it was a smg size assault rifle...
25 Jul 2010, 12:18 am | click here to view more
My baby girl is now 9 months old but since She was a newborn people in the road and friends and family suggested me to enter her into some sort of contest for commercials or magazines. The only one I know about is "the great american photo contest" but I read online that it might be a scam.. Does anybody know of any other way to submit her picture into something legitimate?
30 Jul 2010, 2:28 am | click here to view more
I live in the usa and im looking for a place i can find Attitude Magazine..ive heard you can receive it at Borders but i looked there and they don't carry it..i also cant find it anywhere online ...any suggestions?
28 Jul 2010, 12:47 am | click here to view more
Does anyone know what the California law policy is for shipping a magazine to your home? I found a magazine clip online and right before I was about to submit my credit card information I read that ammunition/guns can only be shipped to an address that holds a current FLL. BUT, I'm only ordering a magazine clip. What category does that fall below?
29 Jul 2010, 1:28 pm | click here to view more
Dear every,
I am working on a research paper which asks me to locate: "journals, magazines or other serial publications that are specifically about writing, editing or publishing. The identification should include title, mode of publication (print or online) place of publication ISSN etc."
Extra information: These should be academic, professional or popular serials with a clear connection to writing, editing or publishing as subjects. Journals and e-zines of creative writing may be included.
Thank you every, I am having so much trouble with the paper. I live in Kuwait and accessing information is almost impossible of this material. I am willing to pay for the journals if there is something available on the World Wide Web. I have looked but to no avail.
29 Jul 2010, 1:58 pm | click here to view more
Ok, sharing this makes me feel like even more of a loser but here goes..
When I was little, we moved around alot coz my dad is an Archeologist/Egyptologist and we travel alot. My mom is a stay at home mom, she has her possess business online. Some might say I'm sooo lucky to move to different places, but im not glad at all1!! Recently we've been living in the same place for a year now and left me a chance to go to high school however..
1. I've never had a best pal or anyone I could talk to, never had girlfriends over for sleepovers or to talk about boys with.
2. Never been to any social events at school, like dances, homecoming, football games, etc
3. Im very shy when it comes to meeting people my AGE, i dunno i receive along better with older people
4. I don't have any talents. NONE AT every. I'm not very good at anything coz im soo clumsy and forgetful..
5. I couldnt even function at my first job which is cashier, i got fired :(
6. I never have any friends over, im not very popular
7. I dont have many friends only at school, i have a couple..but im new to this school so everyone already knows everyone else
8. I suck at school!!!! My grades are ok
I dunno!!! My family isnt really supportive of my dreams, they dont care, they act like they dont care. My dad has never really been much of a dad to me and my brother. He would leave early in the morning at 8:00 and arrive home different times, dont say much. He just talks about his work and the fact that I have to arrive up to him to talk makes me frusrated coz i always have to be the first to talk, i want someone to chase after me ya know?!
Im usually at home during summers and after school, watching tv, reading magazines, or just writing in ym journal about how i wish my life could be.
and i just feel like a looserrr!!!
uhhh okk guy
24 Jul 2010, 3:53 pm | click here to view more
What are the code words for 17 Mag July freebie online things?
27 Jul 2010, 4:12 pm | click here to view more
I have a non-profit e-zine, or in other words, online magazine. It is free to read & I found a image on a message-board that I would like to use for my magazine. I contacted the person who posted such image & they want money for the image even though it is not copyrighted, he states it is copyright the minute he posts it online from him.
Can I use this image in my magazine if I'm not making profits from it & i don't think he actually has it copyrighted legally he is just making things up, this is exactly what he said;
"every of my photos are copyrighted immediately upon publishing (i.e. posting to an internet forum) as per the Berne Copyright Convention, "
Any suggestions if I can use it?
27 Jul 2010, 5:10 pm | click here to view more
Hi I am wondering how to make a online magazine. I found this site issuu.com but it needs you to upload a pdf. Also what program to people use to make the magazine that they are able to keep it in a .pdf format? You can use word to upload to issuu but it really doesn't look like a magazine.
24 Jul 2010, 12:21 pm | click here to view more
What is the magazine thing at 0:17 and where would I be able to receive one online?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W8yR4PIFlgA
Edit: Sorry for not being American Muledeer or whatever your name is. The reason I want to know this is because
I live in England
I'm 15
I possess a spring powered air gun and cannot receive an m4 in the uk
Only joking muledeer
25 Jul 2010, 12:22 pm | click here to view more
al-Qaeda has produced an online English language magazine called Inspire.
Here's an article about it...
http://www.theatlantic.com/international/archive/2010/06/al-qaedas-first-english-language-magazine-is-here/59006/
Where can I read the whole thing online? (I'm not a terrorist, just interested in the middle east)
"frankie" that's the laziest response i've ever seen on yahoo answers, not only did you say "i don't know" but YOU asked ME to do research for YOU?
24 Jul 2010, 8:19 pm | click here to view more
Exact answers only!
25 Jul 2010, 8:26 pm | click here to view more
Hello guys,
I am planning to start a tiny online magazine for ladies (fashion and beauty tips magazine) But I don 't think that I can handle everything myself. So I am looking for a few female companions who are interested in writing and editing articles in such topics (like health care, beauty, fashion trends etc.) But I don't know where I can find a few people for this. Can anybody advice me?
Thanks.
The magazine is online and it is in English. I don't need experienced people. Just some one who can proof read given articles and edit it properly before publishing on the website is enough.
28 Jul 2010, 12:58 am | click here to view more
I have a punk influenced style. I adore 90's fashion. I also like girlie and skater pieces as well.
I know it isn't really about fashion, but I think it's fun.
Sometimes I will be watching tv, looking at pictures online, or flipping through a magazine and look chilly outfits. When I look at these outfits sometimes, I think 'Wow. I would have never thought of wearing those pieces together!" or "Wow those accessories look chilly with that outfit"
My question is, how can I put chilly outfits together like that...
Thanks!
~K.
I don't care what other people think of my clothes, I just want to make what I wear a bit more interesting...
29 Jul 2010, 4:35 am | click here to view more
This is the article I'm trying to cite. http://www.spiegel.de/international/spiegel/0,1518,342376,00.html
29 Jul 2010, 4:51 pm | click here to view more
If so, you should submit to be a "Recognizing Me" girl. Recognizing Me girls are a part of the new online magazine at www.recognizingme.webs.com and they have TALENT, AMBITION, and are GOOD PEOPLE. They need to be able to give girls advice and must be between the ages of 9-16. If you fit into these categories, please go to www.recognizingme.webs.com and click on "Be a Recognizing Me Girl" to find out how to do it. You don't have to pay nor will you receive paid, it's just a cute, fun thing to do.
26 Jul 2010, 5:14 pm | click here to view more
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Hi. When I go to a hairstyle salon, there is always magazines with every these hairstyles from side, front, and stuff. usually every japanese magazine. I am wandering if there is any of the like online? They every show just one angle. I want like a whole place dedicated to every varieties of hairstyles from side, front, back, before-after.
Maybe I should have just stolen the magazine from the salon ... :P Not =)
29 Jul 2010, 6:26 am | click here to view more
If you do have it, do you think you can scan the poster of Oli & his dog (from BMTH) and email it to me? Please? :D lol because I really want it and I can't find it online :/ thanks!!
28 Jul 2010, 9:52 pm | click here to view more
What station did they air on? What memories and thoughts do you have on them? Do you remember anything about online ads? I found pictures from the BART, any other transit advertising like NYC MTA? I have pics of bulletin boards and some magazine.
I'm working on a paper for my Advertising class so I will take any and every imput, please and thank you.
If you need best for the points or the ratio, Email me and let me know: michaltastik@yahoo.com
Is there anyone who can actually contribute something? Personally, I remember that I would be on my exercise ball in the commercials but, the music on those ads was really receive up and dance and so that's what I did.
27 Jul 2010, 8:07 pm | click here to view more
There is a competition for 12-18 year olds for one of my favorite magazines and the winner gets to model for the cover! I am 16 so I think I am a good age to enter. It says include 50 words about why you want to win the competition and I'm not sure what to put. Any ideas? please help me guys I really want to me a model! Especially one for magazines because then you dont have to be a size 0 :)
25 Jul 2010, 10:53 am | click here to view more
I'm looking for a photograph, which i know i have found online before, and i am pretty sure it is by Chris Steele Perkins, it is black and white and from his photographs from New Society magazine, or s group of kids sitting and lying on a hillside overlooking a city, they are laughing and drinking.
I found it before as i had the title, but now i cannot remeber it! please let me know if you know the photograph i am talking about!!! thanks!
24 Jul 2010, 3:58 pm | click here to view more
I've been waiting for over a year for this manhwa to finally be sold in America, because http://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?id=27591 says that it's been licensed in English. I looked everywhere I could find (even places online that were nowhere close my home) trying to find a place to buy it, but it was nowhere to be found. Finally I went and looked at the page (posted over) again and found that it was serialized in issue which is a korean magazine for manhwa and other comics/literary works. The only problem now is that MSH was published from 2006 to Dec 28, 2007. I really want to read it, so does any one have any ideas on how I can?
28 Jul 2010, 10:58 am | click here to view more
Basically I want exactly what Walgreens does for their Weekly Ads,
http://walgreens.shoplocal.com/walgreens/Default.aspx?
you click the ad and on the next page you can "flip" through the pages...
I don't just want to click next and have it go to the next page with a page turning effect... I want the users to be able to turn the page themselves. To "tug" the page. How did they do this? I looked at the code And I think they used Flash and javascript.. yeah? If not, then what? And if yes, HOW????
A link to a tutorial, or step by step instructions.. would be appreciated.
Or if you've done/seen this done another way, how was it done??
Thanks :)
Or maybe program/application/script or something that I can just download???
23 Jul 2010, 11:56 pm | click here to view more
I am totally upsets with hello kitty and i saw in i believe people magazine Hayden Panettiere wearing a red hello kitty bathing suit. I really want a really cute one. But i don't wanna buy it online i don't do shopping online. So i was wondering what stores i can go to that possibly would have a hello kitty bikini. please help.
25 Jul 2010, 6:59 pm | click here to view more
I have nothing much to do this summer, so I want to make a website.
Would you rather look at:
An online fashion, celebrity magazine?
A graphics website, for layouts, page graphics, and html?
Or a celebrity gossip website?
:D
26 Jul 2010, 8:55 pm | click here to view more
I don't know if this will receive answered. But I'm looking for a picture I found online once. Its a picture of a girl with a tiger head, and shes laying on a bed smoking and reading a vanity fair magazine. Its kinda black and white and its a really vintage type photography. ANy hellp?
25 Jul 2010, 2:31 pm | click here to view more
What nice of daycare do you/will you use?
I am/will be a stay at home mom
Nanny
Shared Sitter
tiny in-home daycare
Commercial daycare
How long do you think a mom should breast feed after birth?
Always as long as possible
Depends, but a year is fine
Six months or so is fine
Six to twelve weeks is fine
Totally optional for the mom
What is your opinion about autism in kids?
The same number of kids have it as before, we are just better at diagnosing it
The same number of kids have it as before, but more kids are being diagnosed with it anyway
Fewer kids have it than use to
More kids have it than use to
I have no idea
What is the best type of parenting style?
Always strict so kids learn discipline
Always forgiving so kids learn compassion
Balanced and even
Depends entirely on each kids individually
Do you, or will you, allow your young childrend to watch TV
Yes
A moderate amount
A little bit
None
Would you/have you ever spanked your child?
Yes-- often
Yes-- Sometimes
No- only once
No- never
Do you/will you give your child an allowance?
Yes
No
Where do you receive most of your parenting advice?
Online
Magazines
Books
Friends/family
Religion
Other
29 Jul 2010, 9:51 am | click here to view more
so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and we live together. we plan on getting married and having kids after we receive out of school and have our careers going.. i am very much in adore with him and he is in adore with me, but i honestly think he loves megan fox more.. he has always liked her, but his obsession got worse when transformer 2 came out.. he has pictures from magazines and posters of her EVERYWHERE in the bedroom. he even gets online and prints out pictures of her and puts them in a scrapbook thats just for megan fox stuff. i was always ok with it but lately he wants me to put a black wig on and he clip her face out of this one poster and put some strings on it so i can wear it while we have sex!! and every he wants to do when we arent at work or school is watch transformers, jennifers body and go to the movies and watch jonah hex.. he talks about her constantly, has her as his cellphone background.. this cant be normal.. and omg when he found out she got married he actaully punched a hole in the wall and left.. i told him its not like he ever had a chance with her anyways, and he gets so mad at me and tells me im jealous.. im just sleepy of feeling like megan fox comes first, he is always on the computer looking her up, reading about her and everything..
it is worth leaving him for? what should i do? i adore him but cant take his obsession much more..
MATURE ANSWERS ONLY even though people may find this silly its my life and its not silly to me so serious answers only
thank u
27 Jul 2010, 12:03 am | click here to view more
I saw this part in Seventeen Magazine (August Issue) "Rock a New Hairstyle". One of the things said knit headbands. I really want one of those headbands but I have no idea where to receive them. The magazine only suggested that you buy it from this website: jenniferouelette.com. I don't wanna buy it online though. Is there any store I can go to? I don't want it to be over $15 unless you can't receive it anywhere at that price. BTW, I go to the Smithhaven Mall.
26 Jul 2010, 6:21 pm | click here to view more
i am not a terrorist i just want to look for myself what the news is talking about as i have found nothing but one line quotes.
26 Jul 2010, 2:13 pm | click here to view more
I want to find a website that I can look at recent fashion spreads from popular magazines on. I adore magazines and if I could I would buy every fashion magazine on the shelf. But I can't. My mom doesn't like me to because of some of the articles in the magazines. And I never look at that anyways. I just look at the fashion spreads because I am so interested in fashion. Where can I find these online. I have seen websites that have a few of them but they weren't very organized. I just need a few websites. :) Thanks.
25 Jul 2010, 9:30 pm | click here to view more
I would prefer an answer from men only because I don't think women can relate to this question as well.
I'm 32 and have not had sex in 14 years. I'm a 5'11, white male, fit, attractive, athletic, financially successful, responsible, well dressed, clean, and have had my career and priorities together for 14 long years waiting for that one special person.
However I'm painfully shy and simply cannot talk to women below any circumstances. I simply cannot. When there is a pretty girl in the elevator with me or in public and I want to talk to her I'm instantly struck with feelings of high anxiety which leaves me frozen and unable to talk. I live alone, and I'm totally and completely alone in this world with no friends and limited family. My social life is totally non-existent. I do NOT like bars or clubs which most women always insist on attending and parading themselves at. I hate clubs and bars so much I simply refuse to go. Everywhere else I go - I go alone.
Sure, I talk to people but I don't make any lasting friends and more importantly I don't meet any females or receive any numbers. Online dating has been a complete disaster and waste of time and money. Out of 50 emails sent only 1 is returned. And the women expect only the best guys (even though real life might be different it seems when they receive online they suddenly demand the best) and I can never keep the conversation going so they cease emailing with me.
I promise everyone reading this letter am a good looking clean well dressed guy in every respects. Yet it feels like most women are simply rejecting me. Even though I *know* that's not true (or what I try to tell myself) it's what it feels like because I believe if women were interested in me - they would talk to me. And they don't.
Guys I know who are the diametric opposite of me who are very irresponsible, clowns, players, not gainfully employed, in a band, tattoos or whatever: they don't even have to try. They just sit back and the women arrive to them; or as one guy I talked to put it "I don't have to do anything they fall in my lap".
Now what nice of girls am I talking about here? Basically the kinds of girls that 90% of the male population would prefer if given the choice. And who are these girls? They are young attractive 18-22 year old girls. And these images are constantly thrust in my face as a reminder of what I can't have. On television, in magazines, and in real life. I just got back from the Nivea Volleyball Expo in Long Beach approximately 20 minutes ago. That is what prompted this letter. 18-22 year old girls with perfect bodies, perfect faces, and perfect smiles in bikini's at the booths dancing and shaking thier perfect teenage bodies for every to look.
These are 18-22 year old girls who I can never have. And even if I wasn't painfully shy: they are now of my age range.
14 years have now gone by. How many more years should I wait?
I'm wondering if my situation has now become the dire exception to the rule, and justifies paying an 18-22 yr old perfect escort for a "girlfriend experience" as well as talking to me beforehand and "coaching me" through this situation. I was thinking I could explain to her that I have not had sex in 14 years and she would understand and help me out before having any nice of sex.
Let's face it: sex from a female gives a man confidence. He gets a huge boost in his personal life, his sense of well being, and in his career. And of course I'm thinking this might give me a boost of confidence and diminish my shyness which could help me overcome this situation well after she collects her money and leaves.
I need to know what you think of this. Is it right? Is it wrong? Am I justified in seeking this route. And if so - why is it right or wrong. I am a good person and I do have a conscience. And if you are someone who thinks my situation is acceptable and/or has had an escort before please tell me about your experience, how it was, and how I should best go about taking care of this.
I understand allot of escorts go to college and I live close to CSU Long Beach but whats more important (after I determine if I'm going to move forward) is finding the right one. I need to know where I should go and look for someone who is compatible with my situation. Specifically someone young and has never done this or only done this a few times to pay some college bills etc.Money is no object.
This situation is causing severe depression, severe feelings of deprivation, worthlessness and now suicide. 14 years is a long time. Any man could hardly imagine such a painful punishment and when you add being alone every the time it's truly is a consequential combination.
I prefer responses from men and I don't want any lectures or negative comments from women about this, please. If you have something constructive to say please do o
I spill my guts and these are the nice of answers I receive? And I only receive 5? I was expecting at least 10 x that many.
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