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Resolved Question: DID I F*** THIS UP? ......Its a long read please forgive me...please help?

Did i make a mistake by revealing what i felt tonight?????...sorry its a long read please forgive me? I have a pal with benifits ive known since sept...we met as FWB and i was looking for that. im 25 hes 31. from the very first time we hooked up HE wanted to stay every night and cuddle and HE said lets keep in touch and he would IM me first everyday(i never contacted him 1st or got clingy) AFTER we had sex.he was always affectionate and paid me compliments....but out of nowhere in he said we shouldnt talk anymore...i was crushed since i havent liked a guy in a long time and i sent him an email saying i like you but theres no pressure and im sorry if i said something wrong.ive always liked him and hes said that about me...since i missed him and IMd him in dec. and we were back on. we met , i spent the night at his place and was leaving the next day but said i could stay for dinner he made and to watch a battle.. also IMD me for hrs while i was out of town saying we should meet again. but when i came back in town I IMd him since i was feeling down and he said he wasnt feeling this anymore and i then asked him to be a pal in so many words but he said i was being immature and we began to insult eachother back and forth but HE then said to meet at a bar??. we talked and later he said i was a good pal for comforting him while he teared up as he spoke about an ex who cheated on him with his best pal in 2006. were later in public and i didnt want to receive more sexual so he got upset but i cried and stormed off he followed me to hold me and say sorry but later he was still upset at my lack of sexual spontaneity and i kicked him out of my car but we made up, he spent the night with me and HE IMd me 3 diff. days after that. we last IMd 2+ weeks ago.. i purposely laid low to clear my head or receive used to not talking to him and i wanted to look if hed contact me and he never did but i saw that he was on and i IMd him.. we spoke for hrs about random stuff i mentioned that i bought him a tiny gift for his bday on feb 5th but he didnt mention meeting up sometime to receive the gift then he changed the topic to more sexual stuff (not cyber sex lol ) then he said when he was getting ready to go i felt overwhelmed to tell him how i feel. ''look idk how to explain this and i know we met as FWB but i feel like ive developed some nice of feeling for you , i cant label it but i know i think of you or find myself missing you? and i cant help how i feel. im not feeling attached because im a lady and cant handle FWB.'' he simply said ''you know i dont feel the same way but thanks for being honest...do you feel better now?, i have to leave'' i said ''no i feel awful/unhappy... did you ever like me as a person? would you ever want to meet again?'' but he then said ''sorry ...i feel bad.but i wish you feel better ..i have to go now..i dont think of who i like i just want fun...yes youre chilly,we are friends right? and yes we will meet one of these days....we will meet and i need to receive my gift : P'' ive asked people what to do prior to me saying my feelings and they said i was right for laying low or wait for him and they've said just say how you feel and i was hesitant to because i wanted to stay strong /move on and NOT let him know how i felt but something came over me tonight.....what do you make of his overall behavior anyway and what could happen from here...i havent like someone in any aspect in a long time and my chest hurts....
4 Feb 2012, 11:06 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Someone gave me their credit card information.?

So, someone was stupid enough to give me every their credit card info, it was on a kink/fetish site where men give money or buy gifts for women and then receive off on it, He was like 'i want you to convince me to give you my cc info' and so i did, and he gave it to me and was like 'only spend 50 dollars a week ok?' and i got a little carried away and spent like... 800. I dont really feel guilty for doing it so dont give me stupid answers like, OH YOUR HORRIBLE bad PERSON!!! If he's a fxckin dumbass, he needs to learn from his mistakes, and i'll be his lesson (: My question is... Can i receive in trouble for this? I definitely dont want to end up in juvie, or something. so, do you think he will press charges? And if he does, does he have a leg to stand on? He entrusted me with his credit card information... So i feel like it would be his fault. honest answers please, im really scared right now. Lol. I just kinda did it without thinking, then i'm like , "Ohhhh.. shoot."
4 Feb 2012, 3:05 am | click here to view more

Voting Question: I need an imput from women who are currently seperated?

I had this thought in my head for a while: should I still receive my wife a valentines day gift this year even though we are currently separated? She rejected a ring I had gotten for her this past november(our 4 yr anniversary) this was during the time when she really didint talk to me. We still look each almost every day and she is more friendly to me than two months ago. I still adore her but I don't kno what to do. We don't live below one roof right now so I'm a little confused if this separation is a way of letting me down in a easier way but I'm not looking for someone else and not interested at every I want her!!! She is also pregnant with our second baby i have been there for her even though this is going on. I have made many mistakes every which I'm regretful for and take deep responsibility for anyways should I receive her a gift? Chocolates? Card? Or nothing? What the thing to do??
2 Feb 2012, 5:59 am | click here to view more

Voting Question: Men don't seem to have a problem with Christmas, so why do they seem to hate Valentine's Day?

I don't receive every this male hatred for Valentine's day. I mean, isn't it the day of the year where women wear cute, sexy red dresses and give you extra long... ahem... I have heard the excuse that men hate being "forced" into it. Well in that case how do you feel about Christmas? I mean in either case it is a holiday where you are EXPECTED to buy presents for people and show them extra attention because you care for them. YES businesses do take advantage of it and try to sell you lots of crap, but I personally don't care! I still like putting a grin on my friends and family members faces when I give them a gift, and like the feeling of being loved when they give me one (big or tiny) To me it seems that CERTAIN men don't like Valentine's day since it is the equivalent to "Sex day" (a hypothetical holiday where sex is the focus) from a lady's perspective. If this were a real holiday CERTAIN women would feel "obligated" to have sex with their man... but the feeling of obligation would arrive from their disliking of sex with their man. I mean, I adore mac and cheese.. so if there was a holiday where I HAD to eat mac and cheese I would have absolutely no problem with it. My point is... men who hate V-day are just the guys that have been faking romance every along and actually hate it... much as a prudish chick might hate "sex day". I think there are SOME men out there who don't feel resentful towards a day where you buy flowers and candy for your lady and tell her you appreciate her (since they are mature men who are not afraid to show gratitude). Other guys... they need to grow up and self analyze.
2 Feb 2012, 5:18 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Bisexual or NORMAL friendship? I'm not sure where she stands on our friendship?

She told me about her having sex toys the other day. Then she tells me today, before ending a conservation that she's going to play for a few, then head to bed. But after saying that she goes, NOT playing with myself LOL. Which was kinda out of the blue. We weren't talking about sex or anything. I just got my license picture in the mail and I said it was a close up and she said maybe the lady liked you. And I said Ew! lol, and she was old. Which my pal is old too. I still adore her though lol She calls me angel or baby. She plays with my hair sometimes. She hates hugs but loves hugging me and mentioned our breast touch. Which I don't pay attention too. I'm just hugging her. She tells me things about her sex life and just every over personal. I don't know if this is just what friends do, or if she is kinda hitting on me. She has never came out and said she likes women, but I often wonder. She likes to buy me expensive gifts and has sent me pink roses for my birthday. She tells me that I need her and she needs me. And that we are a lot same. And that I'll never receive rid of her because I'm stuck with her and I better just deal with it. One time I said I will look you at the shower meaning the baby shower, and I then corrected myself stating what I meant and she goes at least you didn't say I'll look you in the shower. And she just laughed. What do you think? 9 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details I have rubbed her leg, and she didn't move it. But she told me she doesn't like if I rub her back. Was this because others look if you rub someones back? As oppose to their leg? LOL Can't receive anyone to answer. So I worded it differently. LOL
4 Feb 2012, 3:32 am | click here to view more

Open Question: is this guy a player or not?

it's really difficult to figure out sometime he does or does not 1) he buys gifts for me = he does not 2)he talks sweet = he does 3) he touches your skin or body parts = he does not 4) He lies sometimes = he does (sometimes) 5) he tells his dark past = he does 6) he tells me he likes = he does 7) takes too long return a text message = he only text me every fourth day ( idk why) 8) he remembers your birthday = he does 9) has lots of female friends = he does 10) he respects you and gives time when your mad at him = he does 11) he tells you your beautiful and smart = he does 12) he introduces you to his friends (including females) = he does 13) he introduces you to his family = he does not 14) he cares about my health = he does 15) he says your conservative and is very different from his previous gfs = he does it's really difficult to tell because most players are good at acting like good guys. on our third date he did mention he became a player once and cheated many times because his first girlfriend broke his heart. for 3 months of dating i never called him but only text him (haha). He did ask me with unhappy facial expression if i could call him and i said i couldn't i only do send text messages. we cooled off for 1 month. now it seems he wants me to do the chasing and i don't like it because it looks stupid for a lady to chase a man. how can i tell him that i don't want to chase him? how can i tell him that i don't want to feed his ego without hurting his feelings? please help ;(
2 Feb 2012, 11:19 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Physical Harassment in the Workplace?

I started working with this company it's a laboratory here in San Diego, California (not going to mention the name of the employer for personal reasons) and it's been almost 5 months now that I've been there. When I first started out working as a billing clerk here, I must admit - I adore what I do, but not the people I work with. I have a team guide (she's a female who is 27 years old) and she was basically the one who hired me when I was doing an interview along with another lady whom is the supervisor. As days go on, I would notice that she would start making comments about me, I'm asian and I have long black hair, and she would call me Samara - that girl from the Ring.. and I felt uncomfortable that she would do that, but I let it go - so that there wouldn't be any trouble. Plus she wasn't physically assaulting me or anything. Also, at our job, since there is little space in our office, me and my co-workers including her, would be right next to each other, somewhat looking like an internet cafe. Anyhow, there were times when they would talk amongst themselves and I would be excluded or in other words left behind. But I would just ignore it, and go along my possess work. Anyways, I'm just there to work and not make friends. I mean I have talked to them altogether - we'd have casual talks here and there but I wouldn't receive too personal with them, because in the end, from my previous jobs, I know that we will end up like enemies anyways. That's what always happens to me when I work because I become friends with them and as days goes on, what happens is they end up backstabbing me and I'm so nice to them and everything I don't even know why it ends up that way. I am 30 years old and Asian with long black hair, and I look young I must admit but I don't know if that has anything to do with why I'm being harrassed at work. Anyhow, as the days go on, I had a death in the family, my grandfather, and we have these name tags at work where it would say "hello my name is --" I took a week off my job because I needed to take care of funeral/viewing arrangements, and when I got back, I saw on my name tag it says "hello my name is Samara right next to my name" and that Samara wasn't there before... and at this - I was like really pissed off... but let it go... but whoever wrote that was really messed up.. they were probably thinking it was a joke or something. So I told my supervisor about that, and she said okay, we'll discuss this with the group so I was like okay. So after a few days, I arrive back from lunch and I look this bag of gift along with a card saying Condolences from the members of my department. Anyhow, I let that Samara issue go. As days go on, my team guide sometimes touch my head and feel my hair and say, I adore your hair, I wish I had hair like that. When she said that, I said oh thanks - and then continued with my job. One day, out of the blue, my team guide slapped the back of my head but it was very light... I let it go again.. because she was just saying hi... but then one day again, this happened just yesterday, I was working, with my headphones in my ear, my team guide passes by my desk and slaps the back of my head hitting my ear, and I turned around and realized it was her.. I was gonna say something, but when I turned around she was already far away. I don't know why she is doing this to me? I haven't done anything wrong to her - Like I said before, when I work I'm always just at my desk, doing my thing, and I do socialize with them, but not too much.. because I'm just there to work you know? The second time she hit my head, it was harder than the first time. So now this thing is getting to me, because I know this would seriously happen again. Not soon, but I know in the future it will. Just because she's a team guide doesn't give her the reason to treat me like this, I'm not a dog, I'm not her daughter and plus we are every co-workers, I'm just a human being trying to make ends meet. I wonder why this is happening to me. Why is she doing that to me? I have a co-worker that sits right next to me, he's a guy, but I'm sure he won't say his my witness because he's scared of our team guide plus he doesn't like me too much either. I have emailed HR already so I'm talking to them this Monday. I don't know what's going to happen next once I do tell HR. I know there will be big time tension between me and my team guide once I do tell them what she has been doing. She's done other things to me too, like bad stares, even talk to my other co-workers and make me feel left behind and others, but what really got to me is that she slapped the back of my head the second time. I don't want this to happen again, so I'm doing something about it this Monday when I talk to HR. What do you guys think I should do? Do you guys think this is physical harassment? I lov what I was saying is that I adore my job, but now that I'm telling HR I know there will be a huge tension between me and her. What do you guys think I should do? Is telling HR a bad idea? Or is that good? Or should I just wait for her to do it again, and kick this bitch's ass?
4 Feb 2012, 8:47 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Help, I want to buy my teacher a gift please (Girls R Recommended)!?

Okay, so I am a guy in college and my teacher is a women who is like about 15 years older than me. I have posted questions here before about her acts around me and now I am pretty sure she is flirting with me. But this semester I am not taking her classes anymore, so I wanted to buy her a good gift, like the price doesn't really matter to me what ever it is I can go from $1.00 to $150.00 or even $200.00. P.S. Please no bad ideas or swearing or anything (I didn't posted the question for that), but I don't want her to start hatting me, and I am also doing this because she has been my best teacher in my life (that's every I can say). Thanks.
3 Feb 2012, 1:24 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Husbands, would you be appreciative? Is it really the thought that counts?

For Valentines day this is what I'm doing. My husband LOVES labs (He calls them Melly dogs because he absolute favorite dog was a lab named Melly) So I bought a heart shaped box with with Melly dogs on them (They're both wearing half heart necklaces as collars) and filling it with his favorite candy. I got one of those big cards. He owns storage buildings so I got one that says "You hold the key to my heart" Then you open it and it says "And I'll never change the lock" then I wrote him a note. And it has some pretty stuff on the front. And I got him pink boxers that say "Heart on" on the front. Men, even if you didn't like the gifts, would you still be appreciative that your wife tried? Anything else I should receive him? Women's opinions welcomed too of course :) BQ:What do you want for Valentines day?
5 Feb 2012, 4:30 am | click here to view more

Voting Question: Where can I find a pair of DC Swiper Gloves?

http://www.esquire.com/the-side/gifts/stylish-gifts-7#slide-8 I have been relentlessly searching for these gloves I need to receive them ASAP. I don't want to hear about the other kinda I just want these. Thank you for any help! Also it is a gift for my guy so I need to find the men's, not sure if they even have a women's but I just want to cover every my bases!
2 Feb 2012, 3:59 am | click here to view more

Open Question: if women want to be viewed as equals why do they expect guys do everything in relationships?

they cant ask guys out because theyre too shy/insecure (pfft yea right so are most guys, sounds like an extreme case of laziness and social darwinism), they cant pay for dates because a "guy should do it," they expect you to buy gifts for them while providing you nothing without even telling you what they want, and you really only hear from them if something's wrong and relationships just revolve around serving women's every whim and listening to every their problems and boring life story. the only pay off is sëx and even that's not that good after having to deal with every this together. it's like surviving the holocaust and getting a $5 gift card at walmart as a reward.
3 Feb 2012, 12:49 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: If he was a man of God would he do these things?

My boyfriend considers himself a man of God, now I know that a lady was given to man as a gift so Man won't be alone and if that's the case then why would man treat women like toys and a thing that can be thrown away? How can a Man treat a lady so horribly and just say Its not me or I don't Know. I know He didn't grow up with his dad, and he saw the way his dad treated his mom and he blames me for what happened. I don't look how he sleeps at night because he won't face his problems and sometimes its like he wants me to fail and not make it. I feel bad for him. He'd rather chose the riches here on Earth than in Heaven and i reminded him of what he has in Heaven and he didn't say anything...
4 Feb 2012, 2:30 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Christians do you think it would be just if someone did this?

A women who was genetically engineered so she could live forever decides to create an island out in the middle of the ocean. After making the island she plants trees that have been genetically engineered so that their wood does not float on water and puts every kinds of animals on the island as well. She also does some stuff to the island such as planting fossils on it that make it look much older than it really is. After making the island the women clones her self but genetically engineers her clone so she cannot live forever and so that she is much weaker than she is and is also less quick or intelligent as well as being smaller. She also tells her clone that she can eat of anything on the island except for the slime mold of the knowledge of good and bad because if she eats of it she will surly die. After cloning her self the women makes a clone of her clone that is genetically engineered to be a male and genetically engineers both clones so that the male will be the one who can receive pregnant but the female cannot receive pregnant. A talking rat tricks the male clone into eating from the slime mold of the knowledge of good and bad and then he passes it to his wife and she eats of it. When the women figures out what they did she genetically engineers the rat so that it has no legs and kicks her clones out of her home and has her daughter clone rule over her son clone. Later the women sees that the whole island is corrupt and decides to destroy every animal life on it by releasing a cloud of carbon monoxide onto the island. She sees though that one of the islanders still loves her and tells her to build a protective shelter and bring two of every animal from the island into the shelter as well as her family for one year. The women then releases a cloud of carbon monoxide onto the island to kill every the animals and then when the person comes from her shelter she promises never to kill every the animals on the island again. Many years later the women has sex with one of the decedents of her clones to produce a daughter. Her daughter goes around the island preaching and then gets beaten senselessly before going to another island to be burned for three days. After this the women tells some of the islanders that her daughter was tortured for their disobedience and that anyone who accepted the "gift" of her daughter being beaten senselessly and then burned for three days would be forgiven and allowed to go to the island of paradise but anyone who does not accept the "gift" would go to the island of flame at some unannounced time to be burned forever. The women then leaves the island for her island of paradise making sure to leave no recognizable trace of her existence on the island. The only evidence she leaves behind is oral traditions, and a book she had some of the islanders write but the book is so unbelievable that many of the islanders have trouble believing she once existed and so many end up going to the island of flame.
2 Feb 2012, 7:00 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Could you tell me what god wants from me?

People would talk about say im ugly and too skinny. They would ask my x bfs what in the hell they were thinking going out with me. Im super depress and I cant eat. I thought god would help me but he doesnt care. My mom told me Im special she said before I was born a women said god has his hand on her and I have a gift. My gift is that I receive dreams that arrive true espically when people I dont know are in my dreams and then I look them in the future. And another one is that someone would talk to me in my head many times. Like they would say leave her as a pal or hes just wants sex and other things too. And I dont hear at every because I think I be tripping but that same voice that tells me whats going to happen ends up being right. Im not crazy but i knew ever since I was 5 I knew I was diffetent I cant explain. I have a feeling or this warmth when I look god I know and feel like I was meant to serve him and worship him. but I would tell my mom why I always receive hurt by everyone and bads things always happen to me. She said because until you bow down to god and surrender your going to keep fighting battles. Idk why god wants me on his side so much. this guy told me that I was here for a very special reason. can you tell me why god put so much battles towards me? And why he wants me to surrender so badly?
4 Feb 2012, 7:38 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Who doesn't like Valentine's Day? and Why?

[when i say women, i don't mean everyone, just the ones i've arrive in to contact with] Valentine's Day was supposed to be a day for adore right? Then why is it that it has become a day for women to expect gifts from men, and men receive nothing in return? And please. Sex is NOT a gift. Giving your gf/wife a gift, and expecting sex is the same transaction they have in a whore home. Any guy with about $100 can receive sex. Sex is "adore-making" both men and women share. Ads like these http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWrJgFjxl… ruin the idea of valentine's day! If you're giving your bf/husband sex for presents, you're being a prostitute. The unfortunate thing is many women find this day SO special, when it's really not. Your bf/husband should adore you spontaneously. Why do women value their relationships on such material objects on Valentine's Day? Women complain that men aren't romantic, I understand that men have to initiate the romance, but why do women expect SO much from men and do NOTHING of the same value in return? Women go on and on about what their perfect guy would be, and what he would do. But they never say what THEY will do for the guy. Why do they think that just because they're women, they're automatically perfect? Why do women take chick-flicks seriously? Why do they base romance off what the media portrays? "he has to do what Edward did" or "I want him do with Noah did from the Notebook". These are fictional characters, in a fictional story. I feel that these women haven't grown up since they were little girls, and still expect a Disney Princess story. Why is it so one sided? In a world where women and men are supposed to be treated as equals, why do men let women walk over them? Women want the best of both worlds, and it's disgusting. They claim chivalry is dead, but women are the ones who killed it. Women have to pick to either be an equal to men, or be the traditional lady. You can't be both. Feminism has become twisted, and men should take the stand now. I'm appalled at women who are entitled to every these material things, JUST because they're women. As if men don't like to receive gifts? My ex-girlfriend and I never celebrated valentine's day, it was just a normal day. But the women i'm meeting now are so shallow. Is it really so tough to find a lady who actually believes in equality?
4 Feb 2012, 2:47 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Why have religions filled humans with antagonism against sexuality?

Why do we bring up kids and set them up against their possess energy and tutor them that it's poison, that it's from the devil? Sex is the very source of one’s life; everyone is born out of it. Existence has accepted the energy of sex as the starting point of creation, and our so called holy men call it sinful… You look a blossom in bloom– have you ever considered that the blossoming of a blossom is an act of passion, a sexual act? What is happening as the blossom blossoms? The butterflies will sit on it and carry its pollen, its sperm, to another blossom. A peacock dances in full glory– your so called saints and mullahs will start praising God and they'll be filled with joy at the sight of it. But aren’t they aware that the dance is an overt expression of passion, that it is primarily a sexual act? The peacock is dancing to seduce its beloved. The peacock is beckoning to his mate. The bird is singing, the peacock is dancing, the boy has become an adolescent, the girl has grown into a beautiful lady– these are every expressions of sexual energy. These are every different manifestations of sexual energy. every life, every expression, every flowering is basically sex energy. And it is against this sex energy that religions and primitive cultures are pouring poison into the minds of kids and every human beings. They are trying to engage human beings in a battle against it. They have entangled people in this battle against their possess basic energy, so they have become wretched, pathetic, devoid of adore, untrue, incapable of loving themselves nor anybody. If we had eyes to look, if our minds weren't polluted by ideas of repression, then the energy of sex would be considered divine energy, godly energy. That is why this energy creates new life. It is the greatest, most mysterious force of every. We would accept it blissfully. Acknowledge its sacredness. Acknowledge its benediction. We would tutor kids reverence, not conflict and sinfulness. So aren't our so-called religions and cultures basically responsible for the excessive sexuality that is so evident in humankind? One cannot be free from something that is the very root of one’s life. But in the process of this constant inner conflict, this schizophrenia, one’s entire life can become sick– and it has. Our minds revolve around sex. No animal in the world is sexual like human beings are. Human beings are sexual around the clock– awake or asleep, sitting or walking, sex has become everything to them. Because of the enmity toward sex, because of this opposition and suppression, it has become like an ulcer to their being. A sheer gift from existence, and we've managed to turn it into a curse. This can't be the work of God, it's the very servitude of the devil.
4 Feb 2012, 10:40 am | click here to view more

Open Question: PLEASE HELP .....DID I MESS UP ?? sorry its a long read please forgive me?

I have a pal with benifits ive known since sept...we met as FWB and i was looking for that. im 25 hes 31. from the very first time we hooked up HE wanted to stay every night and cuddle and HE said lets keep in touch and he would IM me first everyday(i never contacted him 1st or got clingy) AFTER we had sex.he was always affectionate and paid me compliments....but out of nowhere in he said we shouldnt talk anymore...i was crushed since i havent liked a guy in a long time and i sent him an email saying i like you but theres no pressure and im sorry if i said something wrong.ive always liked him and hes said that about me...since i missed him and IMd him in dec. and we were back on. we met , i spent the night at his place and was leaving the next day but said i could stay for dinner he made and to watch a battle.. also IMD me for hrs while i was out of town saying we should meet again. but when i came back in town I IMd him since i was feeling down and he said he wasnt feeling this anymore and i then asked him to be a pal in so many words but he said i was being immature and we began to insult eachother back and forth but HE then said to meet at a bar??. we talked and later he said i was a good pal for comforting him while he teared up as he spoke about an ex who cheated on him with his best pal in 2006. were later in public and i didnt want to receive more sexual so he got upset but i cried and stormed off he followed me to hold me and say sorry but later he was still upset at my lack of sexual spontaneity and i kicked him out of my car but we made up, he spent the night with me and HE IMd me 3 diff. days after that. we last IMd 2+ weeks ago.. i purposely laid low to clear my head or receive used to not talking to him and i wanted to look if hed contact me and he never did but i saw that he was on and i IMd him.. we spoke for hrs about random stuff i mentioned that i bought him a tiny gift for his bday on feb 5th but he didnt mention meeting up sometime to receive the gift then he changed the topic to more sexual stuff (not cyber sex lol ) then he said when he was getting ready to go i felt overwhelmed to tell him how i feel. ''look idk how to explain this and i know we met as FWB but i feel like ive developed some nice of feeling for you , i cant label it but i know i think of you or find myself missing you? and i cant help how i feel. im not feeling attached because im a lady and cant handle FWB.'' he simply said ''you know i dont feel the same way but thanks for being honest...do you feel better now?, i have to leave'' i said ''no i feel awful/unhappy... did you ever like me as a person? would you ever want to meet again?'' but he then said ''sorry ...i feel bad.but i wish you feel better ..i have to go now..i dont think of who i like i just want fun...yes youre chilly,we are friends right? and yes we will meet one of these days....we will meet and i need to receive my gift : P'' Did i mess up big time now by laying every of my cards out on the table???ive asked people what to do prior to me saying my feelings and they said i was right for laying low or wait for him and they've said just say how you feel and i was hesitant to because i wanted to stay strong /move on and NOT let him know how i felt but something came over me tonight.....what do you make of his overall behavior anyway and what could happen from here...i havent like someone in any aspect in a long time and my chest hurts....
4 Feb 2012, 11:48 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: If this happened would it be legal?

Open Question: How are girls attracted to guys like this? 10 points for best answer?

I have this pal. He is probably one of the most narcissistic people I have ever met. He isn't Saddam Hussein, but he's pretty disrespectful when it comes to women. I'm hetero, but he really is a good looking guy and every the girls agree. Whenever we go out to the mall or whatever, he constantly gets compliments from RANDOM girls about how he's hot, cute, sexy, handsome, beautiful, whatever. This pretty much gives him a free pass at every the beautiful girls of the world. Pretty much, if you compared me and him side by side and had a panel of women in front of us, I guarantee every of the women would pick him over me based on physical looks. He is arrogant, chevalier, hedonistic, and he simply doesn't give a ****. He nonchalantly calls women "bitches" and he always tells me how he's getting a new "*****" every week. He always talks about his conquests and how he's trying to receive more "notches on the belt". I know he gets women because I've been at parties with him and he's slipped away with several women at several different parties. He then sends me texts telling me how girls at his school are "crazy and the only prescription is my dick", "why do every these bitches want a piece of me?", and he sent me a picture of this girl in a bikini saying "this is the ***** that I'm gonna **** so well tonight". He thinks he's God's gift to women. He also said on spring break he's heading to California and he's going to "bang his balls off". Then, when you contrast with me. I'm 21, still a virgin, haven't done ANYTHING with a girl. Over the summer, I was trying to receive to know this girl a little better. She and I aligned in interests, ideologies, everything. We were getting closer and stuff and I thought she might end up being my first girlfriend. Then, I figured out she used me to receive closer to him. They ****** for about two weeks and then he dumped her and she tried to arrive crawling back to me. I immediately kicked her to the curb. I don't want to deal with that. I guess this is what I receive for doing every the right things. The guys like me will either arrive in last or not at every and we'll have to deal with the collateral fallout from guys like my pal. Maybe that's what I should do, follow his example because I obviously aren't getting anywhere. Disregard women, disregard their emotions. Isn't that right? Makes me feel like I'm going to be single forever because women obviously don't like me and don't want to have anything I have to offer. I am his pal because I've known him since I was 10. When it comes to other things he is ok, but when we receive on the subject of women, I can't STAND him. He also doesn't have an STD because he's been cleared numerous times by his doctor. I'm surprised. He's so damn smooth he talks the girls into him fucking him without a condom...
5 Feb 2012, 11:19 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: I've posted three times already. SOMEONE PLEASE ANSWER. Is she bisexual?

She told me about her having sex toys the other day. Then she tells me today, before ending a conservation that she's going to play for a few, then head to bed. But after saying that she goes, NOT playing with myself LOL. Which was kinda out of the blue. We weren't talking about sex or anything. I just got my license picture in the mail and I said it was a close up and she said maybe the lady liked you. And I said Ew! lol, and she was old. Which my pal is old too. I still adore her though lol She calls me angel or baby. She plays with my hair sometimes. She hates hugs but loves hugging me and mentioned our breast touch. Which I don't pay attention too. I'm just hugging her. She tells me things about her sex life and just every over personal. I don't know if this is just what friends do, or if she is kinda hitting on me. She has never came out and said she likes women, but I often wonder. She likes to buy me expensive gifts and has sent me pink roses for my birthday. She tells me that I need her and she needs me. And that we are a lot same. And that I'll never receive rid of her because I'm stuck with her and I better just deal with it. One time I said I will look you at the shower meaning the baby shower, and I then corrected myself stating what I meant and she goes at least you didn't say I'll look you in the shower. And she just laughed. What do you think? 9 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details I have rubbed her leg, and she didn't move it. But she told me she doesn't like if I rub her back. Was this because others look if you rub someones back? As oppose to their leg? THANK YOU CUTE!!! Finally, someone answered and gave me an answer. Not a smart as$ remark. Sometimes, I really hate this site.
4 Feb 2012, 3:46 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Would you do this for love?

Say you were a wealthy upper-class socialite, seventeen years old, or around that age. You were engaged to a man of incredible wealth and an heir to a steel fortune. Say you were living in the Edwardian era, a time based around a rigid social class structure and gender and class roles. Well, say your mom forced you to receive engaged with that wealthy man whom you do not adore, because your dad died and left huge debts upon you and your mom's shoulders. Say you went on a trip to Europe, then returned to America aboard one of the grandest ships ever built at the time, Titanic. Say it was 1912. Well, you couldn't stand it anymore. The rigid social structure and roles, the etiquette, the repetitive lifestyle, the pointlessness and meaninglessness of this nice of existence for an upper class lady in Edwardian high society. You were also engaged to a man you do not adore, and inside you there is this "flame", this attitude, and this inner free spirit which is being corseted up by society. You couldn't stand it anymore and you contemplate suicide at the rear end of the boat. However, you were saved by a needy, third class passenger, a boy a few years older than you, and you spoke to each other and fell in adore. He convinces you to rebel, you have A LOT of fun together, he draws you naked and you put the drawing, along with your fiancé's engagement gift to you, in your fiancé's safe in protest and for feminism. You run away with this amazing guy, and you have sex at the back of an early Ford car in the storage area of the boat. However, this boat hits an iceberg, your lover gets accused to stealing the necklace, and gets locked up. You have to board a lifeboat quick, otherwise you will have a 90% chance of dying. Would you leave your mom and fiancé and go risk your life by trying to keep your lover who has been locked up in a chamber deep within the boat, or would you board the lifeboat to safety, but lose your lover and return to the rigid lifestyle you led? Which would you pick? Life or adore? Wealth or freedom?
5 Feb 2012, 5:44 pm | click here to view more

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Open Question: What do you think of the beginning for my story?

This is it: The summer holidays passed quickly that year, as they did every year for a child I suppose, and September dawned as dull and as dreary as ever. Quickly enough September 1st arrived and kids up and down the country were getting ready for school; some going to public high and middle schools, whilst others returning to big, private schools in the country. One private school in particular was very private indeed. It close out the outside world with its high, wild hedges; crumbling, rock school buildings; wrought, iron gates. It wasn’t welcoming grounds and people who drove past usually thought it was empty. But now students and teachers were returning as usual ready for the new school year. every you needed to be able to attend was a letter of acceptance. * The landscape raced past the windows, shifting from sprawling fields to sweeping rivers, to bustling towns and back again. The interior of the train seemed to radiate with warmth, and the benches inside were incredibly comfortable - a contrast to the raging weather outside. mad, dense clouds conquered the sky, and rain fell with great force and fury. It splattered against the windows, leaving drops of water that clung to the glass. Throughout the train, students were sharing summer news and discussing their plans that would arrive into action when they reached their destination – their school, St. Chad’s. The new prefects of St. Chad’s were travelling in their possess compartment as they as always did, travelling back to a school with a big secret: St. Chad’s was a school for spies with the real name of St. Chad’s Academy for Underage Spies in Training… After long hours of card games and endless gossip the train began to slow revealing a deserted train station with no one but a few of the teachers - there to accompany the old and new students up to the school safely. The train slowed to a standstill and the students began opening the heavy metal doors. Hearts beating loudly the new prefects descended onto the platform along with every the other pupils. Heaving their heavy trunks (which they would place in a shed so the caretaker and a few other teachers could bring them up to the school) packed with every their school books and equipment; freshly laundered uniforms; casual clothes and money for days when the pupils of St. Chad’s were allowed to visit the local town either for practical lessons or leisure – Talleydown At first, the packed crowds and steam billowing from the train’s funnel made it nearly impossible to look the leave. Finally once every the students were off the train they made their way towards the leave sign over their heads, creaking in the wind. As the crowd drifted towards the leave a tiny group of students were still stood beside the train - which was now slowly gathering speed - some of whom were still recounting their summers whilst the relax shuffled awkwardly evidently eager to catch up with their friends. The crowd parted slightly and an elderly lady walked through the middle, walking towards the group of people still standing by the platform. As she approached them they every turned towards her obviously she had been the one they had been waiting for. She said in a firm accent, ‘Hello kids, welcome back! I’m guessing you every got your letters alright and joined the prefect’s carriage once you were on the train?’ They every nodded their heads. ‘You have been made school prefects because you are gifted students and will not only be setting an example to the younger students but maintaining a healthy reputation for the school, do I make myself clear?’ They nodded their heads again, ‘now you badges are here…’ she began fumbling in her pocket before drawing out a bunch of red badges are printed with a capital ‘P’ and handed one to each student. ‘Now please make your way up to the school with the relax of the students before dinner begins.’ With that, she turned and left. The group disbanded and made their way towards the leave, many walking quick in order to catch up with their friends whilst others hung back to put their trunks with the others. Amongst the group heading towards the leave was a boy with blazing red hair and his numerous number of freckles make his starling, blue eyes more prominent. He was deep in conversation with a tall girl with straight, chestnut-coloured hair. That's it so far - bear in mind I'm only 12. But tell me what you think, be a critical as you want to. Thanks, - Caitlin.
2 Feb 2012, 3:53 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: physically harrassed at work?

Open Question: My husband of 5 years hates me?

My husband bought a ticket for me to flew down to California to visit my parents for 2 weeks because he thinks we need a break when we really needed was communicate and how to fix our issues. Anyway, I stayed in California for 1 week and I booked a ticket to fly home tomorrow. My husband got upset when I told him I will be home tomorrow. He started to tell me that he hates me and everything I do or say make him hates me even more. Even my presence makes him furious. He also mentioned that he pack every my belongings and is ready for me to pick it up when I arrive in Florida. He also mentioned that he will makes my life a living hell when I receive back, by saying cruel things to me and etc. I am shocked and I do not know why he is doing this to me. I do not believe in break, because we have our issues (like, finances, goals, schools, starting a family, buying a home and etc) that need to be discuss right away. My husband a firm believer of taking a marriage break will makes us stronger. Really now?! How in the world is that going to solve our marriage problems? I also think he is hanging out with his female best pal way too much. After he found out that his pal is now single. He used to like her before we dated but at that time she is with her previous boyfriend, whom they shared a child. I asked my husband what he thinks about dating a lady with a kid, he said "It's perfectly normal to date someone with a kid." I do think that implies to his pal. I do think his female pal is the cause of our problems. He constantly talking to her, testing her and everything. On Christmas his bought her the new ipod nano and make a plplay-listf her songs which have more than 200 songs in it. And he paid for every the damn songs. He never did that with anyone, not even me. For Christmas, he just got me a pair of shoes. It was sweet but I want a gift with meaning, like his female pal did. I even told him how I felt about him talking to his best pal and the gift, he got upset and yelled at me. Telling me that I am stupid to think that he likes his best pal and etc. What is going on here?! I'm not a clingy nor a jealousy person. My husband hardly take me out on a date or even do something together. I don't mind him chatting with girls as long as he not kissing them. The worst part is that he's not going to pick me up at the airport tomorrow :-(
6 Feb 2012, 1:31 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Plz Help I can't talk with anyone & I want to die!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Plz help me :( This guy saw me when I was overseas; we both arrive from the same tiny town where everyone knows everyone. But we never talked. He then got in touch with me through a pal that we both know well on Facebook. After a few weeks he told me that he liked me & wanted a good girl to settle down with. I said that we should take things slow. so we both agreed that we would meet up when I go back there again. I was always there for him & even sent him gifts. He even told his friends about me & would receive jealous when my friends made comments on my Facebook photos since his been cheated on in the past. My aunty that lives there even said he was a nice guy. He always called me his wifey. After one year of talking I told him that I was coming in 3 months’ time & he was glad but then after I noticed that he was always unhappy about his work because they were not paying him. so I sent him some money, since life there is difficult. I would always talk with him to show that I care. He felt really bad about this & said thank you. But wanted to pay me back but I said not to worry. Then every of a sudden he says that he just wants a friendship and don’t even want to receive married & says that I didn’t give him a chance to adore me since I talked too much to him. & that he just wanted to live with his mom that is a widow. I said that I would give him space & that I loved him and was sorry. But I just wanted to be there for him since I don’t look him. And he said that he hated his life and still wanted to be friends even though I didn’t want to be friends anymore. He kept pushing to be friends and said that there was no other lady & just wanted to be single forever & he said please don’t think I hate you and he said that he would still meet me when I go there. And be good pal & would not cease talking with me. I was so hurt and he knew it.Then the next day he sent me a Email acting like nothing happen. But I didn’t answer then he sent tow more Emails saying not even hello?? Thanks a lot and then he sent me another one saying as you like?? What does he want and why is he doing this ;(
3 Feb 2012, 7:13 am | click here to view more

Open Question: What is the most common gift women get for Valentine?

5 Feb 2012, 10:00 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Who dislikes valentine's day? and why?

[when i say women, i don't mean everyone, just the ones i've arrive in to contact with] Valentine's Day was supposed to be a day for adore right? Then why is it that it has become a day for women to expect gifts from men, and men receive nothing in return? And please. Sex is NOT a gift. Giving your gf/wife a gift, and expecting sex is the same transaction they have in a whore home. Any guy with about $100 can receive sex. Sex is "adore-making" both men and women share. Ads like these http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWrJgFjxlS0 ruin the idea of valentine's day! If you're giving your bf/husband sex for presents, you're being a prostitute. The unfortunate thing is many women find this day SO special, when it's really not. Your bf/husband should adore you spontaneously. Why do women value their relationships on such material objects on Valentine's Day? Women complain that men aren't romantic, I understand that men have to initiate the romance, but why do women expect SO much from men and do NOTHING of the same value in return? Women go on and on about what their perfect guy would be, and what he would do. But they never say what THEY will do for the guy. Why do they think that just because they're women, they're automatically perfect? Why do women take chick-flicks seriously? Why do they base romance off what the media portrays? "he has to do what Edward did" or "I want him do with Noah did from the Notebook". These are fictional characters, in a fictional story. I feel that these women haven't grown up since they were little girls, and still expect a Disney Princess story. Why is it so one sided? In a world where women and men are supposed to be treated as equals, why do men let women walk over them? Women want the best of both worlds, and it's disgusting. They claim chivalry is dead, but women are the ones who killed it. Women have to pick to either be an equal to men, or be the traditional lady. You can't be both. Feminism has become twisted, and men should take the stand now. I'm appalled at women who are entitled to every these material things, JUST because they're women. As if men don't like to receive gifts? My ex-girlfriend and I never celebrated valentine's day, it was just a normal day. But the women i'm meeting now are so shallow. Is it really so tough to find a lady who actually believes in equality? Gamble, I have no issues when men taking women out to dinner. Just saying it would be nice to hear your girlfriend say "i got you a couple bottles of beer for you!" or "let's go out for dinner tonight! my treat!". I believe it's about reciprocity. But i think you're right, i think i'm hanging around the wrong group. I wish you're right, i wish there are sane women out there.
4 Feb 2012, 2:42 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Ladies, is a 4 1/2 foot teddy bear really something you would want for Valentines Day?

Or any other day for that matter? Just curious - I find it difficult to believe a grown lady would be thrilled about getting a huge dust collector, and something that takes up half the bed. http://www.vermontteddybear.com/valentines_day_gifts/
2 Feb 2012, 9:34 am | click here to view more

Open Question: i was really nice to this girl for weeks, why didnt she put out?

i gave her flowers, gifts, talked to her every the time and was always there for her yet she wouldnt put out or date me. what's wrong with women these days? cant they realize when something's nice and reward ita or do they need to receive beaten up by the jerks they adore so much and lose everything because of it?
4 Feb 2012, 9:28 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: If this were made into a movie what would it be rated?

Open Question: What to do when I'm getting physically harrassed at work?

I started working with this company it's a laboratory here in San Diego, California (not going to mention the name of the employer for personal reasons) and it's been almost 5 months now that I've been there. When I first started out working as a billing clerk here, I must admit - I adore what I do, but not the people I work with. I have a team guide (she's a female who is 27 years old) and she was basically the one who hired me when I was doing an interview along with another lady whom is the supervisor. As days go on, I would notice that she would start making comments about me, I'm asian and I have long black hair, and she would call me Samara - that girl from the Ring.. and I felt uncomfortable that she would do that, but I let it go - so that there wouldn't be any trouble. Plus she wasn't physically assaulting me or anything. Also, at our job, since there is little space in our office, me and my co-workers including her, would be right next to each other, somewhat looking like an internet cafe. Anyhow, there were times when they would talk amongst themselves and I would be excluded or in other words left behind. But I would just ignore it, and go along my possess work. Anyways, I'm just there to work and not make friends. I mean I have talked to them altogether - we'd have casual talks here and there but I wouldn't receive too personal with them, because in the end, from my previous jobs, I know that we will end up like enemies anyways. That's what always happens to me when I work because I become friends with them and as days goes on, what happens is they end up backstabbing me and I'm so nice to them and everything I don't even know why it ends up that way. I am 30 years old and Asian with long black hair, and I look young I must admit but I don't know if that has anything to do with why I'm being harrassed at work. Anyhow, as the days go on, I had a death in the family, my grandfather, and we have these name tags at work where it would say "hello my name is --" I took a week off my job because I needed to take care of funeral/viewing arrangements, and when I got back, I saw on my name tag it says "hello my name is Samara right next to my name" and that Samara wasn't there before... and at this - I was like really pissed off... but let it go... but whoever wrote that was really messed up.. they were probably thinking it was a joke or something. So I told my supervisor about that, and she said okay, we'll discuss this with the group so I was like okay. So after a few days, I arrive back from lunch and I look this bag of gift along with a card saying Condolences from the members of my department. Anyhow, I let that Samara issue go. As days go on, my team guide sometimes touch my head and feel my hair and say, I adore your hair, I wish I had hair like that. When she said that, I said oh thanks - and then continued with my job. One day, out of the blue, my team guide slapped the back of my head but it was very light... I let it go again.. because she was just saying hi... but then one day again, this happened just yesterday, I was working, with my headphones in my ear, my team guide passes by my desk and slaps the back of my head hitting my ear, and I turned around and realized it was her.. I was gonna say something, but when I turned around she was already far away. I don't know why she is doing this to me? I haven't done anything wrong to her - Like I said before, when I work I'm always just at my desk, doing my thing, and I do socialize with them, but not too much.. because I'm just there to work you know? The second time she hit my head, it was harder than the first time. So now this thing is getting to me, because I know this would seriously happen again. Not soon, but I know in the future it will. Just because she's a team guide doesn't give her the reason to treat me like this, I'm not a dog, I'm not her daughter and plus we are every co-workers, I'm just a human being trying to make ends meet. I wonder why this is happening to me. Why is she doing that to me? I have a co-worker that sits right next to me, he's a guy, but I'm sure he won't say his my witness because he's scared of our team guide plus he doesn't like me too much either. I have emailed HR already so I'm talking to them this Monday. I don't know what's going to happen next once I do tell HR. I know there will be big time tension between me and my team guide once I do tell them what she has been doing. She's done other things to me too, like bad stares, even talk to my other co-workers and make me feel left behind and others, but what really got to me is that she slapped the back of my head the second time. I don't want this to happen again, so I'm doing something about it this Monday when I talk to HR. What do you guys think I should do? Do you guys think this is physical harrassme
4 Feb 2012, 8:40 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: How Can a Man Expect Love From A Woman If It's Like This?

How does he expect me to constantly give him adore, hugs and kisses and do things that a "lady is supposed to do for her man" when: I've worked for 4 years at company, and couldn't take maternity leave because of his shortcomings - I'm forced to work from home with the baby for 6 months to be able to provide for the baby. He stressed me out and exhibited violent behaviour when I was pregnant; He has only given me relax from the baby's night wakings about 2 times in 5 months - I receive up with the baby every night then up to take care of the baby and work at the same time. I'm emotionally, mentally, and physically drained and sleepy. Half the time I can't even receive my work done.. We snooze in separate rooms because he has snooze apnea & extreme snoring, and I have been telling him for over a year to go to the doctor, but he hasn't - he's procrastinating. Says he knows he has to, doesn't like sleeping alone, but won't do anything about it. He's never gotten me a gift or card for my birthday, valentines day, or christmas and we've been together for 2 years - didn't receive the baby anything for his first christmas either - and didn't look us for that christmas either. Whereas I have gotten him numerous things for these occasions. He's only given me $40 towards baby clothes, purchased about 3 cans for formula since the baby was born - no diapers or anything else in 5 months. It's left up to me and my bank account. I had to move out of my apartment & now have no place to live yet because he promised he would live with me and the baby when i had the baby - but then changed his mind when I had him to continue living with his mom at the last minute. He has no empathy for my fatigue and pain I'm having with my body...yet when he gets a headache or joint ache the world must cease for him. And if not, then he withholds affection, and sulks and is silent every day. Can't hold the baby if his neck hurts, but I should deal with my aggravating back pain, etc. and take care of the baby. He NEVER follows through on any promises or when he says he's going to do. No matter how much i suggest things to do (go to the movies, out for dinner, little outings), he never takes me anywhere. Always saying we'll do something soon - soon never comes. Yet, he has his nights that he says he's going to the store and doesn't arrive back for hours - only for me to find that he went to a bar to drink or to his friends home. He's a complete mama's boy - to the extreme. He'll bend over backwards and be at her beck and call, but he hardly does anything for me.. He works, but his money goes to taking care of his needs and his mom's home. Yet, i'm supposed to feel bad when he says he had a long day at work, and then expects dinner and such. His time off from work is spent playing video games or doing things for his mom.. He's jealous, moody and has a bad temper. I can't communicate with him at every. .....Now, how can a lady "show her man adore" and "let him be a man" and just "do what your man says to do" below these (and other - too many to list) conditions? He's in his 30's. Why doesn't he receive it? Why am I still in this relationship? Why can't I leave?
3 Feb 2012, 3:04 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Ladies/Men: Why do people spend a lifetime looking for a soul mate..?

When they know that such a person does not exist..? A soul mate is just something that was probably invented by Hallmark to sell gift cards...! There is no such person, it's like looking for the perfect lady....! No such animal...! A person is more likely to win the Super Lotto than finding their soul mate..!
5 Feb 2012, 11:38 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: question about the woman in black!?

I saw this yesterday, and I was confused is the lady in black actually...good? Is she reuniting every the kids with dead loved ones or only Arthur, his son and wife as a gift for putting her dead son in her grave? What do you think?
4 Feb 2012, 3:03 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Should I Give Up on Men?I'm Considering Becoming Bisexual/Lesbian. I'm so Confused?

I am so confused.I keep meeting men on these dating sites who turn out to be jerks. I really want to be married to a wonderful man and have beautiful kids.I adore kids.Children are precious gifts from over. I like working as a toddler teacher.I have plans to open my possess daycare middle and still continue working as a tot teacher. I am about to be 30 years old.I am on so many dating sites and I'm in the process of renewing my membership with Match.com and BlackPeopleMeet.com. I attract men but every of the men I have gone out with have done me wrong.I am a sweet person,I have a great career,I'm working on my Bachelors degree,I have my possess place,I pay my bills on time,and I like volunteering. I thought men liked women who had their possess,had a great career,and a great personality. I just want a handsome man with a great personality and beautiful kids and pets in the future. Its important that I receive married and have kids.I'm an only child.I want a man who loves me for me and precious kids because I adore kids. I wouldn't be a teacher if I didn't like kids. I don't want to end up the bitter old lady with a bunch of cats. Should I give up on men and become bisexual or lesbian? I have some friends who gave up on men because they too were also meeting jerks so they became lesbian or bisexual. Im just sleepy of meeting jerks and I'm wondering if the right man will ever arrive along.Should I give up on men and have only a lady in my life? I have had a date with a female before and it was pretty chilly.
4 Feb 2012, 8:26 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Buying a gift for my teacher? (Girls Opinion Please)?

Resolved Question: How do I read this male?!?

Im seeing this guy who's really easy to receive along with and we have alot of fun times and share common interests. Especially our friends receive along like a home on flame. Ive been seeing him about twice a week if not, twice a fortnight over drinks everytime we head out for the weekend. Since last November. Im not after a relationship mainly because Ive had a BAD run with them and Im not the clingy type because of it. Im very independant. My friends point me out as "The one who doesnt do relationships" in the group. I'm quite glad to have him as a pal with benefits but the other day he said we may have to talk and sent me a text message asking "Not sure I want to keep this going? But we will talk about it! Still only sex though right?!" In which I confusingly replied to him saying "Nothing more. Nothing Less." Only coz I asked him if he's gonna be in town this weekend coz he randomly pops up like that. He's just arrive out of a very long relationship (Around 6 years) and he seems glad so I dont expect anything out of every this. This got me confused because Im not sure why he would say that. Maybe Im giving off some nice of relationship vibe? Some nice of .. I dunno... The reason why I'm really confused is because he lives about 5 hours away in the city! He's extremely attractive with his pretty boy features and he could honestly receive any girl he wanted but he still travels that far to meet up! He rings me when he's out at the pub with the boys and talks to me for hours and asks what Im up to every the time. So I dont understand what hes doing! He kindve acts like a gods gift to women half the time and I just shake my head, mock him and happily do my possess thing. Im pretty laidback and confident like that. He always always always comes back to me 5 mins later. On Wednesday I told him my mates are gigging at the pub tomorrow night and now he is thinking about coming up look me at the pub when he actually has to steer home for a farewell at his place the day after! He is nuts. Seriously. The he's rockin up back in town this Saturday and told me he needed to receive his footy boots and passport! And then asks me what Im doing. I mean.. Cmon! What do people mean when they say theyre not sure they want to keep this going when its him clearly doing every the effort to just 'Hang out'. Who drives 5 hours to hang out? Im not sure what to arrive of this. Its like he's warning me he doesnt want a relationship when it's not me...Hes the one showing signs to prove otherwise. But I dont want to bring it up as an issue. Is this maybe male reverse phycoligy?! I can usually read men but I just cant read this one. Any Ideas on where his mind is at? Sorry for the lonnnng novel sized entry Im high on coffee
4 Feb 2012, 9:30 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Men/Ladies: Why do women expect men to send them flowers....?

Why ? What have they done for us men lately ? What do men receive from women, chocolates, a 36 case of Bud Light , ? What, why do women always expect the man to arrive around and surprise them with some gift, be it flowers, chocolates, or other crap ! Plus, women are always expecting compliments on a daily basis, what's up with that ? Do they deserve these compliments ? Not necessarily, so why should men give a compliment when the lady does not deserve one.....? I'm just saying....!
4 Feb 2012, 8:16 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: My question is for Asian Guys (Not the majority)...What's the deal?

I know I'm probably going to receive a lot of hate comments or bashing for asking but sorry guys I got to ask, cause I want to know. What the heck is wrong with asian guys these days? Not talking about every of them in general, but just the "few dumbasses" that are in this case what I refer to as "Man-Whore Asian Guys" who likes to boast about how many non-asian chicks he's bang (even though I'm sure it's less than what he claims), or the "Wanna Be White Asian Guy" who are always chasing after White Trophy Girls or non-asian women because they feel it's what they "need" to do to prove to society that they aren't at the bottom of the masculine threshold!! My questions for these asian guys are: Why do you make it your conquest to make sure you "receive to" date white girls? Did these "obsessions" arrive about as a way to "justify your egos" because you receive miffed every time you look an asian girl with Pinkerton Syndrome? Why do you guys keep posting stuff up in YouTube and other sights to glorify your little short term conquest with your white girls, like scoring a white girl is humanity's effin gift or something? Video's title "asian guys can receive white girls" or "asian guys with white girls". Even so, going as far as making video giving tips to one another on "how to date a white girl" or "how to talk to a white girl etc" WTF is up with that? I've seen a shit load of these white-girl-worship videos on YouTube and I can't help but feel disgusted with pity for you every. I mean arrive on. Who do you need to prove yourself to? and what benefit would you receive from dating a trophy girl just for the color of her skin? Or are you every just in denial of actually having Pinkerton Syndrome yourselves, like many of those asian girls who date "only white men"? If not then why are you so obbessed with the idea of dating or scoring a white or non-asian girl? Can't you look that the more you continue to post up nonsense like these, you're only proving to your viewers that you're every so dumb you need some "REAL ADVICE" on how to receive girls in general! It's silly that many of you think you have a right to be upset and feel inferior to the way that media and society has sickly twisted and emasculated the asian male's identity, but then make foolish videos such as these to share with the whole world! It's self degrading and mockery in my opinion. Might as well hold up a white flag for every the current stereotyped that the media's making you out to be. You guys have the nerve to COMPLAIN about the race-traitor asian sluts that only dates white guys, yet turn around and worship white girls as if they are WHAT YOU NEED just to feel "less inferior" to your other male rivals. How messed up this that? So how are you any different from these sold-out sluts you're habitually bashing??? In my opinion every asian guys or girls who feel the need to date out of race to feel better about themselves, are sick and unhappy pathetic individuals. You guys are a disgrace to the asian society and you're half the reason for every the stereotyping place on asians in general. Grow up and cease being so childish!
2 Feb 2012, 7:01 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Starting to think my friend is bi. What do you think?

She told me about her having sex toys the other day. Then she tells me today, before ending a conservation that she's going to play for a few, then head to bed. But after saying that she goes, NOT playing with myself LOL. Which was kinda out of the blue. We weren't talking about sex or anything. I just got my license picture in the mail and I said it was a close up and she said maybe the lady liked you. And I said Ew! lol, and she was old. Which my pal is old too. I still adore her though lol She calls me angel or baby. She plays with my hair sometimes. She hates hugs but loves hugging me and mentioned our breast touch. Which I don't pay attention too. I'm just hugging her. She tells me things about her sex life and just every over personal. I don't know if this is just what friends do, or if she is kinda hitting on me. She has never came out and said she likes women, but I often wonder. She likes to buy me expensive gifts and has sent me pink roses for my birthday. She tells me that I need her and she needs me. And that we are a lot same. And that I'll never receive rid of her because I'm stuck with her and I better just deal with it. One time I said I will look you at the shower meaning the baby shower, and I then corrected myself stating what I meant and she goes at least you didn't say I'll look you in the shower. And she just laughed. What do you think? I have rubbed her leg, and she didn't move it. But she told me she doesn't like if I rub her back. Was this because others look if you rub someones back? As oppose to their leg?
4 Feb 2012, 2:56 am | click here to view more

Open Question: i had a dream about red lightning and fire, what dose it mean?!?

some background information; I am quite the spiritual person, I believe there are things on earth (ghosts ect) and i do look things, for example last year I am guessing you are aware of the volcano eruption in chilly, a few weeks prior i had a dream i was watching the news (today show) and the lady (sorry i am very bad at names) said that the volcano was erupting, a few days later i was sitting on our island bench in our kitchen looking at our detailed tiles on the wall close the stove, suddenly i saw an eruption of smoke, a few weeks later i saw a repayment of my dream and a replica of what i saw on the tiles, so from then on i have never taken my dreams lighting, when i have them. last night i had another dream, i was home alone with my mum, we were in the same location as were are currently though the home was completely different. she looked up on the internet to look what the weather was going to be like and told me that there was going to be a big storm, so we locked up the home, suddenly the dream jumped and we were standing out the front of our home on the foot path and saw the clouds in the sky were dark grey almost black, suddenly 3 lightning bolts struck, the view on my dream changed to a bystander a good distance away watching them, one what the normal white while the other two were red. the dream went back to my view and saw flame jump out of where the red lightning struck, travelled from home to home until ours lit up with flame. my mum ran inside with me hot on her heals, she ran and grabbed our tiny dog and my dead cat who has been dead for 4-5 months, i ran to my bedroom which was at the other end of the home instead of the front, flame was everywhere, on the walls but it never burnt me. as soon as i was in the door way to my room i woke up. just to let you know i am an agonist, so i value and respect people views and religions so please let me know what you think my dream means, i am young and don't have a full understanding and knowledge in the field so to talk, my mum has a similar gift though hers is stronger and is able to look other things... though we never talk about it because she hates it. so please let me know what you think about my dream.
4 Feb 2012, 12:27 am | click here to view more

Voting Question: Why Can't I Stop Thinking About My Ex-Boyfriend? He Cheated on Me and I Feel like I want him back?

I'm feeling really confused right now and a bit embarrased, I can't receive this guy I recently dated and broke up with out of my mind and I feel like I want to receive back with him but I don't know why, pleaase help me. Ok, so about 6 months ago I was out with some friends at a bar and I noticed this guy checking me out, he was not exactly my type but he was still really cute, he had long hair, a bit of a patchy beard and tiny pencil mustache, but at first I didn't like him because he looked arrogant and was wearing a suit at a bar and the facial hair seemed kinda pretentious. But about 30 min later when I went up to receive a drink and he offered to buy me one, I agreed and we got to talking, he was really charming and looking at him up closely I found him really hot, I mean the hair still looked kinda odd but he had a really hot body and somewhat handsome face, so long story short I ended up going back to his home and I would have actually slept with him but he drank so much that he fell asleep. Anyway, I did start dating him and eventually slept with him, he was great and I was really glad, I did receive kinda put off when I found out that his gorgeous Mercedez Benz was not purchased by him but was in fact a gift from his aunt, and I later found out that his condo was his parents and he didn't have a job, that was really shocking to me that a 27 year old did not work, but I kept dating him and we dated for a total of 3 months. But, later I found out that he had been cheating on me the whole time, it every started when this lady from work told me that my boyfriend was a "player" when I told her his name, after that I started looking for signs of cheating and found them and when I confronted them he admitted it, so I slapped him (I know that was wrong but I was really mad) and broke up with him. but close to Christmas I got really depressed as I always do (My parents, sister and 2 brothers died in a car accident 6 years ago) and I went to the same bar I met him at, I got a little drunk and then I saw him at the bar, when I first saw him I started cussing him out and calling him names but then I was crying, then he told me he would take me home and he did, then for some reason at my home (I guess I was really drunk) I started kissing him and wanted to snooze with him, but he didn't want to, he said he didn't want to take advantage of me, which the next day I thought was really sweet since this guy is a player and every. Anyway, he ended up inviting me to spend the holidays with him and his family as friends, he seemed so nice and I didn't even feel mad at him anymore, so I agreed and I was amazing, I really got to know him much better than I did as his girlfriend and his family is so sweet. So after New Years I haven't seen him but now I've become obssessed with him, I keep thinking about him every second of the day and I also kinda stalked him the other day by going to the mall when I knew he was there just so I could follow him, I know its creepy but I can't help it, I really want to receive back together with him even though I know its wrong and he'll probably cheat on me again. So could I please receive some advice? What should I do? receive back together or not? and how can I cease thinking about him every day?
1 Feb 2012, 5:02 pm | click here to view more

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Resolved Question: Did i make a mistake by revealing what i felt tonight?????...sorry its a long read please forgive me?

I have a pal with benifits ive known since sept...we met as FWB and i was looking for that. im 25 hes 31. from the very first time we hooked up HE wanted to stay every night and cuddle and HE said lets keep in touch and he would IM me first everyday(i never contacted him 1st or got clingy) AFTER we had sex.he was always affectionate and paid me compliments....but out of nowhere in he said we shouldnt talk anymore...i was crushed since i havent liked a guy in a long time and i sent him an email saying i like you but theres no pressure and im sorry if i said something wrong.ive always liked him and hes said that about me...since i missed him and IMd him in dec. and we were back on. we met , i spent the night at his place and was leaving the next day but said i could stay for dinner he made and to watch a battle.. also IMD me for hrs while i was out of town saying we should meet again. but when i came back in town I IMd him since i was feeling down and he said he wasnt feeling this anymore and i then asked him to be a pal in so many words but he said i was being immature and we began to insult eachother back and forth but HE then said to meet at a bar??. we talked and later he said i was a good pal for comforting him while he teared up as he spoke about an ex who cheated on him with his best pal in 2006. were later in public and i didnt want to receive more sexual so he got upset but i cried and stormed off he followed me to hold me and say sorry but later he was still upset at my lack of sexual spontaneity and i kicked him out of my car but we made up, he spent the night with me and HE IMd me 3 diff. days after that. we last IMd 2+ weeks ago.. i purposely laid low to clear my head or receive used to not talking to him and i wanted to look if hed contact me and he never did but i saw that he was on and i IMd him.. we spoke for hrs about random stuff i mentioned that i bought him a tiny gift for his bday on feb 5th but he didnt mention meeting up sometime to receive the gift then he changed the topic to more sexual stuff (not cyber sex lol ) then he said when he was getting ready to go i felt overwhelmed to tell him how i feel. ''look idk how to explain this and i know we met as FWB but i feel like ive developed some nice of feeling for you , i cant label it but i know i think of you or find myself missing you? and i cant help how i feel. im not feeling attached because im a lady and cant handle FWB.'' he simply said ''you know i dont feel the same way but thanks for being honest...do you feel better now?, i have to leave'' i said ''no i feel awful/unhappy... did you ever like me as a person? would you ever want to meet again?'' but he then said ''sorry ...i feel bad.but i wish you feel better ..i have to go now..i dont think of who i like i just want fun...yes youre chilly,we are friends right? and yes we will meet one of these days....we will meet and i need to receive my gift : P'' ive asked people what to do prior to me saying my feelings and they said i was right for laying low or wait for him and they've said just say how you feel and i was hesitant to because i wanted to stay strong /move on and NOT let him know how i felt but something came over me tonight.....what do you make of his overall behavior anyway and what could happen from here...i havent like someone in any aspect in a long time and my chest hurts....
4 Feb 2012, 10:53 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Ladies - Your answer is IMPORTANT for me...?

Thanks for reading this question, I expect a valuable answer from you. As we every know, Valentine's Day is coming and everyone who is in relationship would like to buy a gift for their adore... I have made a special report which contains really creative and great gift Ideas with every reference to implement them. Report contains 30 really sweet and romantic Ideas for women to give gift to her man.... I possess a really nice blog about dating and relationship. I was thinking about selling it on my website but I am confused about women's need for such report... Kindly answer these 3 questions.... 1) Do women like to buy this nice of stuff...??? 2) For how much money a lady CAN buy this nice of report...?? Should I sell it for $20 or $25 or more than that...?? According to me $25 is right prize as it contains so much valuable content but I need to know what a buyer think.... 3) Do you have any useful suggestion to make this report even more valuable..?? Note: I am not selling it over here so please don't ask for the report... as it's against TOS of Y!A and my morals...:)
2 Feb 2012, 5:22 am | click here to view more

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Open Question: Why would she tell her husband?

Ok so this happened a while back me and my husband were going threw rough time I was depressed and needed someone to talk to and I though my husbands brothers wife was a good person who I thought I could trust. I ended up telling her things that I wad going threw. That I had caught my husband testing other women that wouldn't go home at time and that I was depressed. I honestly thought I could trust her. When I wouldn't go to her she would arrive to me asking "so how are thing going" bla bla bla. I ended up finding out that she was telling her sister about our conversations. She also would make fun of me to her husband. I over heard her. It's been a little over a year since this happened. I never confronted her about I just decided to have I guess kinda remove her from my life even tho we still look each other at family events. I just want to know why she would do this. It still bothers me because I don't think I have ever been betrayed like this. I know in the end it was my fault for even opening my mouth but I just wanted someone to understand me at the time. So I want to know your opinion of why she would do this? Why she would tell her husband thing that were I guess "private" and make fun of me? Why she to this day acts every sweat and friendly when I know I know she doesn't like me? Also this Christmas we took her sons gift who is also 3 hin gift a day after xmas she asid she was waiting on my sons gift she had ordered it online so a week went till she tools The gift over to my work. she bought my 3yr old son a $350 dollar gift (well several gifts that added up to that much). Does that round rediculose of what. I mean i guess I should be glad but I can't help but question why. I realized that when our sons birthdays arrive since they are born a week apart I alway take her sons gift on his birthday and she doesn't give my son anything till like 2 days after I take her sons gift even tho my sons bday is a week n a half before her sons. This happens on Xmas too. Weired
4 Feb 2012, 12:51 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Are most women goldiggers?

Me and my girlfriend split up about a month ago, it was very messy and we haven't spoken since. Things had been rough for a few months, but the nail in the coffin was when she found out that I'm a gambling addict and where most of my income comes from. She is totally against gambling and was upset that I've been hiding it from her since we started dating a year ago. I want back every of the gifts that I gave her during our time together. How can she justify keeping the gifts after she knows where the money used to buy them came from? Is this not hypocritical? She abuses me over the phone for gambling, she says it is disgusting yet she is more than glad to keep every the expensive gifts I bought for her using the money won in casinos and poker parties. She despises gambling, but she has no problem with continuing to keep the benefits of the "dirty money". I bought her a lot of gifts during our time. Hermes birkin bags, the apple mac computers, the jewellery, the louis vuitton bags and shoes, every of the prada and chanel watches, the flatscreen tvs, she has not returned any of those stuff to me, yet she has made it abundantly clear that she finds my activities disgusting and our relationship is over. every of the gifts I gave her total more than £10,000, however the gifts she gave me total less than £200. Do you think its hypocritical of her to keep every of those stuff after she broke up with me for earning money through gambling? If I give her back every the cheap gifts that she gave me, do you think that will prompt her to give me back the expensive stuff I gave her? I really don't want the things back, I just can't take her acting every sanctimonious and trying to be morally better than me, saying that she is disgusted by me, every while enjoying the rewards from my gambling. It just doesn't make sense.
4 Feb 2012, 3:12 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Christians do you think this would be just?

Open Question: What am I doing wrong?

Every time I try to something nice for a lady, it seems like it gets thrown back in my face. I buy a blossom for V-day for someone once and asked her out. She laughed and said it was cute but no. I took a date to a really nice restaurant over what I really could afford. She complained about the place the entire time about she had been to better, more fancy ones. I was dating this lady once who said she liked this little stuffed dog. I went back latter that day and bought it for her and gave it to her the next day. She said, Huh, thanks. Never did look it again. Now my current girlfriend says SHE doesn't like my job because I don't make enough. I like my job (and not because I HAVE ONE, considering the way things are) and like going to work everyday. She thinks I should quit and receive a hire paying job. The last two days she has been saying if you adore me, you would do it for me. It isn't like I don't buy her nice gifts or anything. We don't live together so it isn't like she wants a bigger place. What am I doing wrong here? Why is it no matter what I do, it is not right or good enough? Your input please?
2 Feb 2012, 11:25 pm | click here to view more

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